- Do we really need to give our opinion on when everyone begins their Christmas decorating? Can we just share our Christmas decorating to bring joy to this time of year?
- I was told over and over that you will love your grandchildren more than your own children. That didn’t happen. I love my children so much! I have a different love for my granddaughter. She’s my child’s child. My heart just grew even greater when she was born.
- Growing old can be scary especially when you feel symptoms you never felt before out of no where. Stay in touch with your doctor.
- The Texans are looking good again. Glad we scheduled to go see a game early on and will hope to see a great one. Texans vs. Titans
- Drink your water. It does the body good.
- Spend your time with who and where you want. Life is too short to get permission for your decisions.
- Take the picture. The memories last longer.
- Marriage can be as strong as you let it. Learn when to pick your battles. Learn when to enjoy the moments.
- Take care of your mental health as you would take care of your physical health. It matters more than you know. It also has an impact on your physical.
- Know when to turn off work. The work isn’t going anywhere. It will be there when you get back.
Sunday, December 3, 2023
December Randoms
Sunday, January 1, 2023
Almost Fifty
In 2012, I made a list of 101 things to do or complete in 1001 days. This was a blog challenge that was popular at the time. I managed to almost complete the entire list - proof that when you write it down, it carries weight and is more likely to happen.
I’m around the corner to hit the big 5-0. Oddly, I remember being more anxious when I was turning 40 than I currently am turning 50. Turning 40, I remember having another child was heavily on my mind. The thought of closing a chapter in life I will never have again such as bearing a child frightened me. I was at a loss as to whether I was truly done growing my family. Then I turned 40 and all the anxiety just went away. I was pleased with where we were with our family of 4 and I was appreciative of all that was around me.
Here I am a year and a half away until I make the next milestone. All I want to do now is celebrate where I’ve been and what is to come. This made me think of the 101 challenge I did a while back. Interestingly, I made that list 10 years ago and a couple of years before my 40th birthday.
So, here I am back to making a new list I want to accomplish and document as I journey to my next milestone. I have learned a lot in these past 10 years. I hope to share these lessons along the way as I capture the moments.
Let’s begin with the list.
- Travel for my 50th birthday using my passport. (Location to be determined)
- Prioritize my physical health by following a more health-filled eating plan
- Develop a fitness routine to maintain my energy and well-being
- Make time to journal
- Use my prayer journal
- Complete my doctoral program
- Publish literature - preferably a children’s book
Get a full physical completed- Teach a lesson in class
Return to water or water-based drinks only- Paint a picture
- Read novels for enjoyment
- Create a vision board
- Go to the theater
- Mentor a child
- Take a road trip (or several)
Lunch date with girlfriends- Send a care package to family/girlfriends
- Determine my game plan after retirement - small business thinking!
- Attend a concert
Go camping- Enter a 5K
Throw a themed shower- Recreate a new recipe
- Declutter all rooms
Declutter/organize all closets- Write a letter to my husband
- Write a letter to my daughter
- Write a letter to my son
- Create a poem for my grandchild
- Eat cake
- Take a day from work
Take in the beach- Sit around a campfire
Play board/card games with the family- Watch the sunrise
- Watch the sunset
- Try a new restaurant
- Write a gratitude list
- Volunteer for a cause
- Donate blood
Guest speak at an event- Blog
- Start a podcast
Take a boat ride- Give to a charity
- Take a class for fun
- Take a staycation
- Catch up with Grey’s Anatomy
- Do a family photo session - at a location
Friday, January 1, 2021
Twenty Twenty
Sunday, July 19, 2020
Forty six
- Health matters. Taking care of your body and keeping up with annual appointments is essential. The sooner you discover something wrong, the better opportunity you have in bringing yourself back to good health.
- Mindfulness is not a trend, but real. Just like your physical health is important, so is your mindfulness. You must take time for yourself. Read a book for fun. Practice mindfulness techniques. Play some music and relax. Journal. Anything that relaxes you.
- You really only have one life to live and enjoying every moment with loved ones is golden. Life is short so live each moment doing what makes you happy. Don’t hesitate to tell the ones you love I love you or even I’m sorry.
- Prayer is powerful.
Monday, December 23, 2019
December Gratitude
1) Decluttered garages- This actually happened over Thanksgiving break, but I can’t help to feel grateful that it was in my past and was accomplished so feverishly. I still had boxes full of things from when we moved into our home three years ago. Today all boxes have been discarded.
Saturday, December 7, 2019
Mindfulness
It has become the buzz word. Mindfulness. Is this another fad or is it something we need to pay mind to?
- Happiness is a decision.
- Our thoughts elicit emotion that creates our behaviors that impact our world.
- Be in the present.
- Savor your moments.
- Pause
- Multitasking isn’t real nor is it effective
- Technology is suppose to make work efficient but not keep you at work all the time.
Sunday, November 17, 2019
The Work Bag
Every day I carry my work bag to and from work. It is heavy. It contains each of my daily notebooks I use on a daily basis. I do not know why I carry them back and forth. Perhaps I may need it when I am home. I do not know. Most times, I am so exhaustingly tired I do not even open up my bag. It still comes home with me. It gets even heavier on the weekends. I guess I feel I have more time, let me take more home.
So, last Tuesday I was at work late and figured why take it home. I'm coming right back. So, I did the unthinkable and left it all at work-including my laptop! Then the next day my husband said we were going to have dinner with our daughter. So, I left it again figuring I would not have an ounce of time to do anything with the contents of the bag. Then it was Thursday. I was ready to leave by 4:30, however I still had a to do list to take care of. So, I decided to go ahead and clear the list. I left a bit later- 6:00 p.m. However, I was able to leave without the bag!
There was something about leaving work at work that week that was so refreshing to my soul. I was able to come home with a clear mind. Each morning, I got up and dressed and walked out the house with just my purse. It felt so liberating! I shared this experience with someone and they assured me to keep doing it more often. The feeling was too great that I do think I will make it possible. Even just taking it one day at a time.
This forty something thing is really getting the best of me. Why does it take forty something years to realize what now twenty somethings already know- to take time to care for ourselves. Feed the soul. We only live one life. It's time to make the most of the life I have been given. This includes making the most of the time I have and spending it doing what I love and enjoy most.
Friday, July 19, 2019
Chapter Forty Five
- People don’t necessarily change. We just grow.
- Our health becomes more important.
- Home is always the best place to be on a Friday night.
- Prayer is powerful.
- Not everyone is nice, but you can be nice to everyone.
- What you consume does affect your body and mood.
- Reading is such a relaxing hobby.
- Mediation is so healthy.
- You don't always have to be in a rush. Slow down.
- Traveling is necessary.
- Speaking another language is beneficial.
- Dreams can come true.
- Water is essential for a healthy life.
- It is necessary to take care of yourself. If you don't, no one else will.
- Life is very short.
- The work will always be there. You won't. Choose you.
- Children are a true blessing. Cherish them.
- Chocolate helps any bad day.
- So much can change in one year.
- Love is above everything else. Forgiveness is a gift.
Saturday, September 2, 2017
HoUSton Strong
Day Three: Sunday got even worse as the rain continued to pour in with no end in sight. Streets began to flood. Rivers, creeks, reservoirs...you name it! It all began to slowly rise. It became a nightmare. Television stations ran around the clock coverage with no commercials. Celebrities-JJ Watt, Kevin Hart, The Rock- started challenging each other and the public to donate to the recovery of this what we didn't know at the moment to be the most catastrophic storm disaster to hit the United States.
Television stations still ran 24 hour news about the storm and its effects- with no commercials. Then mid day came and a beam of light peaked through the clouds. It was a beam we had not seen in days. The sun shined upon our city. We knew the end of this horrific storm was near.
Day Seven: Its 6 a.m. The news is covering a story of the plant beginning to have explosions. Its a plastics plant. The chemicals from the plant needed to be kept at a certain cool temperature. Due to the flooding, they lost not only their normal power but the power to their back up generators. A fire is burning and several officers were taken to the hospital as a precaution from their exposure to the chemicals. I was able to finally get out of my vicinity. All freeways leading out were blocked with water the past days. My kids and I visited with a couple of my staff members that had been displaced and took them groceries. Grocery stores still had controlled lines. Fast food places began having long lines as people needed something else to eat. Television stations slowly started returning to normal programming. Some of my teachers went to help another teacher who needed help with her home.
Day Eight: The first day television program returned to normal. The news still covered the aftermath of the storm through most of the broadcast. However, the regular shows where shown. JJ Watt's fundraising efforts had reached 15 million. I got away again. This time going to assist our senior high hand out supplies to people in need. It was emotional to see the wealth of volunteers out in the heat there to help others in need.
Thursday, December 29, 2016
Twenty Sixteen
Twenty sixteen will definitely go down in my books as the most treasured year yet. I almost do not want it to end. I continue reading through news and social media about several celebrities passing away and other people just wanting 2016 to end for different reasons. Several celebrities I grew up with passed away within just a month much less the year-Prince, Nancy Reagan, Florence Henderson, Alan Thicke, George Michael and most recently Carrie Fisher (Princess Leia) and her mother Debbie Reynolds. These just to name a few. Quite sad. Twenty sixteen also can be considered a crazy year in politics with the most frustrating and challenging election that practically divided our country. However, twenty sixteen won't be remembered or defined by any of those things for me. Although each of those in itself were sad and challenging events. In my small world there were a handful of events that were a central point in my life that this year will go down as the most memorable and beautiful year yet because...
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| Our son graduated from high school. |
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| We moved into our new home. |
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| Our son began his freshman year of college. |
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| Our daughter got married. |
No, I don't want 2016 to end. It has so many special moments that I don't want to leave behind. It was an emotional roller coaster that flooded me with joyous tears at a random moments notice. The review reel ran through my mind often times that I would sit and wish all the times back. Where had the time gone? Yes, my husband and I were practically empty nesters and the world we were now living was a totally new thing. I wasn't quite sure if I was ready for it, but it had arrived. I didn't know how to handle it. I was feeling overwhelmingly blessed because it was as if all that I ever wanted came through in one year. The thought of 'what did I do to deserve this' came through my mind and then I stopped to do as we are told to do, accept His blessings. This sign that sits in my kitchen says it all.
Sunday, November 20, 2016
The Wedding
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| My daughter and I at the church rehearsal. My shirt said "Mother of the Bride." It was one made by one of my staff members from work. This was the first and last time I was able to wear it. |
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| The Bridesmaids |
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| A quick pic with little brother |
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| I pronounce you husband and wife! |
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| Sweet kiss after church |
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| The beginning of something beautiful |
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| Let's share this delicious cake! |
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| Father Daughter dance |
















